it's funny jethro,
my h also knows about the board and has asked what you all say about things. once I did make the mistake of telling him that people thought he wasn't ready to put the ring back on yet. but then I also backed it up by letting him know that if not for the people here, I probably would have given up a long time ago!!

I think sometimes they (the was who does return) may feel threatend by the bb. because they do not understand what it is all about and what we really do for each other here.

I'm glad you've joined us in peicing! just keep reminding yourself one day at a time, and if that doesn't work well then one minute at a time!!

we can and will prevail, on the other end of all this mess and pain we will be stronger and better people, hopefully with better marriages thrown in as an added bonus!!

LL