Well B, I too, like you, have not spent enough time over the weekend on the boards. I just got caught up. I am so sorry to hear your pain. Your getting great advice and I dont have much to add. I was going to suggest the weekend get-away. It might do you good. You need some space. We all have our doubts - those are neg. thoughts.
I was reminded today of a couple who went through D b/c of a PA by the wife. The ex-h was hurt at the time but as he reflects back if he had this board he would not have filed for D. Give it time. Patience is not my virtue as you know but we will work on it together. Tomorrow is a new day. A
