I guess if she asks you to take her to your leader, you know you are in trouble.
On a more serious note:
It has been almost 4 months since I found out W had an A. I dont have any way of talking about it with her because she isnt ready yet and might not ever be. I still feel angry about it, but sometimes I dont think about it. Even when she is around. I know what you mean about seeing her naked and it sending your mind reeling to the A. I have been there and am still there ocasionally. Actually I think A is still going on, but there is nothing I can do about it, so I am forcing it out of my head for now. Will it reapear? You bet it will. Just have to focus on not letting it get to me. Your W wants to be forgiven. That is a major step in the right direction. My W still has a F*** You attitude about it. I am not over it, but it is easier to deal with today, than it was 4 months ago. I dont think about it everyday like I used to. Just hang in there Jethro, you will make it. Forgiveness is in your heart. You just have to find it. Give it time. What you are going thru is normal.
FLoyd The grass is always GREENER over the septic tank.
