I'm sorry for your setback, H. Others more knowledgeable about this (Piecing) will help but I'm thinking your H is STILL following his script. You weren't expecting it to be a steady downhill pretty easy roll along to Love Again, were you?
Aside from what HE was doing, What was it that YOU were doing when it was going well, and H was wanting to try again?
Ok, you've Talked enough. Now give the man some space. He said, he wasnt trying cos he just doesnt think it will work - Well, he's still thinking w/that mixed-up brain that's trying to sort thru all his confusion and, yeah, pain. Let it go, just be the best person you can, & see if your Little Bird gets to hopping closer to you again (curious about your life, your changes; feeling safer that you won't press or scare or harm him. . .). (Did you hear the Bird analogy I borrowed from some Archived thread?)
Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.
Me: 45 - WAH: 36 S8; D6 M: 11 yrs 07/06 Initial Bomb 10/06; D Bomb 11/06 - DBing begun 1/5/07 - H moved out 03/16/07 To date: No papers filed; H not seen a L; trying to convince me to MUTUALLY file for D