Okay. I HAVE to ask. Cuz I have been an LD female.
I go to that site... and I don't see 'what could be.' I see what IS. Young, buff, hard female bodies, enjoying themselves.
Now. I KNOW, given experience, that attitude is way more erotic than attributes. But sill. I'm NOT that hard body, and unless I spend more time in the gym than I have, I won't BE that hard, sexy body.
As an LD woman... I could look at that and go... 'never mind. Ain't me, never will be me... forget it. Where's my chocolate?'
NOP... I KNOW you understand what I am saying, for you and I discussed this, back in my day... ad nauseum. I had severe body hang ups.
How does this help the LD woman?
I mean, the thing for me that helped me about this board, was the desenstizing I got from it. I had to talk about sex... constantly...and not in a sexual way... but more in a clinical way. No one here hits on anyone else. We talk about sex like we talk about the weather. That helped me more THAN ANYTHING. And quite honestyly, no offense Mrs. Nops... but NOP staying in my face, about blow jobs, and sex positions, and how I felt about my body... he wasn't hitting on me... he was just putting himself in my xH's position... but still. Jesus.
And then y'all bring up this sex site. I have enough problems on my own getting sexual, and y'all bring up these young gals who look amazing in their g-strings... etc. Not to say I am not working toward that... but I AM 40, and I have HAD babies. Barring marjor surgery... I can only do so much.
As a divorced woman... yikes. Though... did I mention that right after my car accident... my PT instructor... a very yummy 26 y/o man... asked if I would sleep with him? I thought... are you fcking nuts? Do you know what this bod looks like under these clothes?
NOP, sorry, all your lessons are still working their way in. I'm working on it, honey. Attitude. Attidtude. Attitude!!!!!!!!!!
