Is it over for me?

[Yoyowife]

Root,
My major problem is that the OW is going through a divorce. I just worry sometimes that H is cake-eating. But I do wonder how committed he is to her if he comes around me so much. I keep hoping that our history and children will wake him up. I do not contact him unless necessary, but everytime he is nice I can't resist him. When he is around I never discuss our R even though I want to ask him if I am spinnig my wheels. I was very pleased how he responded to our minor crisis Sat. night with D. He came right over and we talked it over and then decided what to do together. I think he appreciated that I included him. I wanted to fall apart and tell him that this wouldn't be happening if he was here to help me parent her, but I didn't. I just showed concern and we discussed it. Root, do you have any advice where I should go with this? Should I continue with what I am doing, or should I go more dark? Oh, by the way I don't see OW moving out of state unless she finds some other sucker to seduce.

I would appreciate input from others also.