Quote: What I'm trying to say is to moderate the talks so you are not inundating her faster than she can process the pain that these talk no doubt stir up in her as well. (An simple case in point would be: such talks on a daily basis would not be a good thing.)
I think this is the case. I'm afraid she's going to get overwhelmed by this, and retreat, knocking you guys back a few squares. I can't tell you not to have these feelings, but maybe you don't have to bury her right now. Just a suggestion, try limiting yourself to talking about every other day, or every third day. If you feel like wigging out, do it here. Then, if necessary, you can re-visit the things that were on your mind at the time, but hopefully in a more stable frame of mind.
I know God won't give me anything I can't handle. I just wish He didn't trust me so much.
