After a brief talk with my C today, I decided to send exW a Friendship card, thanking her for a wonderful time Sat nite. I felt like she should pursue me a little and he had a differnt spin. C said she tried getting your attention for 17 years, she was pursuing you, you pushed her away. We are not trying to make her work for it. Goes against DB'ing principle but so far everything I have done has been met with a positive outcome.
Good work. That wasn't going against DBing. What you're doing is called a 180.
I'm here to support you in whatever it is that decide to do. I'm happy to share advice and it's up to you what you do with at. Irrespective, I want you to be happy and it sounds like you are happy making heaps of baby steps with your ex.
God Bless
Suit
"It's better to have no spouse than have a bad spouse"
