LL, Abby, J-Ro, and KAW thanks for the words of encouragement.

Quoting KAW:
Keep in mind that you don't want to turn these talks into a pattern of what is to come as it will eventually be preceived as you won't be able to let it go and heal.
The quote of the day for me... Guys, I hear you...I really do. But, you know what it's like. It is so incredibly difficult. Actually, yesterday was pretty good for me. Most of the day I felt great...with the exception of a few hours in the evening. I find the nights are the worst. But, I refrained from saying anything to her about it. Of course, this morning it hit me again like a ton of bricks and I simply told her I was upset without getting into it. My point? I'm doing my best to temper what I say.

I do have a question. How long did it take you guys to kind of get over the initial grieving process where you stopped haranging your S? I know my W feels awful about it, but it was so incredibly reckless--hurting all those that love her most--it's despicable. Also, what are your thoughts on C? Do you think it's necessary to do this, or what? Because, to be frank, I'm not entirely sure it's necessary...not that I'm thinking straight.

jethro