After a brief talk with my C today, I decided to send exW a Friendship card, thanking her for a wonderful time Sat nite. I felt like she should pursue me a little and he had a differnt spin. C said she tried getting your attention for 17 years, she was pursuing you, you pushed her away. We are not trying to make her work for it. Goes against DB'ing principle but so far everything I have done has been met with a positive outcome.
She will get the card tommorrow and I am sure she will call or txt me. I then will see if she wants to hang out watching a movie Thursday nite.