Quote: it's more of a why and how and h isn't fully there yet (still not ready to go to c together) they are his issues not mine, I can't waist energy trying to figure out why he left or did what he did, all I can do now is work on me, keep a positive attitude and hope for the best.
I think, and I emphasize the word think, that my W is there. She says she is, but her mood today is very somber...depressed. Of course, I'm paranoid because I kind of let her have it last night (I'll post about that next), and now I'm wondering if she's thinking about seeing the OM, or if she's thinking about how awful she is. I guess I have to do what JJ suggests, and not get in her moods. Easy to say...harder to do...
