Trying to piece at last

[hurtingbad]

Well I was right (as usual) lol. My H wasnt trying at all. He gave me the it wont work again speech on friday. Then we sat down and talked and talked again. I explained it wont work if he dont try. H e agreed he wasnt trying cos he just doesnt think it will work. Told what everybody says on (not told about forum just what people say) the love took a long time to go away and its not just gonna come back straight away. He said he underdtood what I mean and said maybe we will go back to the origional plan then try till after the holidays (12 weeks) then if not one thing has changed call it a day. Which I have to say seems long enough for him to realise if he has feelings or not. Guaranteed the love wont be back by then but if he is going to feel something for me (ie affection, care) it should be there by then. Then if it isnt we will just call it a day for trying but will remain good friends, cos I personally think if he feels nothing by then he wont ever and I will know he has tried because now we have talked things have changed between us and things are on a much better footing.

Hoping things go well now

Hugs HB