as for the rest of it...can't help ya. we had the opposite situation, which is much easier to solve technically.
as for the "snooping" stuff: why is it that when a guy is LD, we assume he must be "gettin' it somewhere"? does that mean we think that there isn't really any such thing as an LD guy??? I don't remember anyone ever suggesting that I should snoop on my W, "..cuz she must be gettin' it somewhere". Particularly when she was PG. LOL!! oh, well. maybe its true. Maybe there isn't any such thing. I certainly don't get it, myself.
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