Originally Posted By: Confident_Me I relate to your pain & desire for reconciliation "now"...
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I can't find where I said this so perhaps you are confusing me with someone else. I am neither in pain over the WAW/M nor do I desire "reconciliation 'now'". On the contrary, I'm not convinced reconciliation is even possible and the longer things go, the less I'm inclined to believe that it is. My only interest right now is to determine if she can make even the smallest step forward.
Sorry, I noticed this & that's why I mentioned it:
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I gave my WAW one month for each year we were married and I am now approaching that mark. I have done what I set out to do and sleep well knowing I have reached my goals. I have told her that I am fast approching the place where I will no longer be willing to entertain a friendship, marriage, or anything else with her, that I can appreciate that we may not be suitable for each other, and that if she feels certain that this is case, then I wish to conclude the D as quickly as possible.
The link I posted, mentions that a reconciliation might be just around the corner from the deadline you have given yourself
