I do not dismiss my wife speaking her love language to me. We must all allow this. But how does speaking the WRONG love langauge to your spouse get any real deposits? Are you asking me to CHANGE my love langauge? If I knew how, I would do it in a second.
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As the HD spouse you CANNOT sit back and wait for her to do things, YOU must get things going. I had to do it, Honeypot had to do it, and countless males on here have had to do it. It's not GENDER specific....it's HD/LD specific.
But how do you do this? Currently, I do initate ALL physcial contact between us. This results in BOTH of us seeing the LD spouse as a tool to be used. The LD spouse actually CREATES the exact kind of sex that they hate (and so do I).
