Quoting Floyd:Have you read Michele's article "Healing from Infidelity?" If you haven't you should.
Floyd, she is more than willing to read anything I ask at this point. Believe me. I started reading this chapter in DR on Saturday with the W and had to stop because it hurt too much. She continued to read it, however.
Quoting Jim:And I'm going to be a hypocrite with this next part, but what good does knowing exactly what happened between them do? It's just going to eat you up, and it won't help you come to peace any quicker. In all honesty, whatever you're imagining is probably a lot worse than what really happened. Why is it that we have to know all the sordid details?
I know, Jim, but it pisses me off that someone else was getting the attention that I wanted and worked for. I have to ask certain questions like, "how did you end it," which she responded by saying that she told him that she had to work 100% on her M. This happened I think right after the second bomb (mid-Oct). I also wanted to know if she said ILY to him. I know, I'm torturing myself, but I have to know. Her response, "I told him I felt love for him, but not that I loved him." Sh$t, talk about splitting hairs. Whatever, I guess it's pretty much the same thing she's been telling me for the last 15 months.
