You are scared you made a mistake moving your office? Are you kidding? I mean, you moved your office to your home b/c YOUR H SAID HE WANTS SOME SPACE, and YOU NEED to have some space of your own. It's just not healthy to be around him so much, given the givens. STOP worrying that this office move, this ONE action of self protection on your part, means you've ruined the M. It's the first and only thing you've done other than smothering/pursuing him, (which we all know has NOT worked at all). For God's sake, think this out. Back off of him. Who knows why he was "gruff" b/c the computer failed, or what ever....STOP the over analyzing. You need to get back into your work, remember that? And you have to GAL and you simply cannot do that when your H is 10 feet away from you. What is there to miss, if you are always around? Please, please stop losing it. Get a grip, take a breath and focus on what you CAN do right now. Finish the move, do some work, earn some money. Call a friend, rent a comedy, and do not bring up R with your H. That is so important I'll repeat it for emphasis: NO MORE R TALK...you are sooooo doing the opposite of what would attract a man back to you. Maybe at some level you don't want him to come back? I'm just asking, b/c you keep making the same mistake over and over, and I wonder if it's really weakness/fear OR if maybe you really do want him out of your life.
Just curious, no offense. j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
