Quote: also reluctant to go down this path. Don't see what good it would do, but I'm the type that needs to know all the facts.
I completely understand that...I have asked my h at least a million times if he was physical with ow...do I think I'll get a different answer on the next time..nope it's a cheesless tunnel.
here's a kicker with my sit...I always complained about h not wanting to be physical enough...then whamo when he comes back to me after a 6month sep and leaving to be with his ea (who was married and is not getting d as a result of all this mess) he couldn't get enough of me??? messed with my head real bad. anyway that's me and my sit and this is your place so....
it does all get better with time like any wound there will be a scar that may still ache when it rains but the day to day pain will slowlee cease. don't spend to much time trying to figure out the how's and why's about w's affair. I'm sure she wouldn't have all the answers you want right now anyway.
