Quote: you may notice that you are very lucky in that w is already open to being physical with you as many that make it here their spouses are still reluctant.
Actually, I don't know how I feel about this because my W was always active with me...even during her A. I get stuck on thinking that there's something warped about being "involved" with two men...that she didn't show so much remorse and stop. Maybe she knew I'd know if she did that, so she continued. I will say, however, that she swears she only had several encounters and these were spread out over a year. I believe her. So, it just might not be as bad as I think. Maybe when she was with him those times, she happened to be more distant with me on those given days. Damn, this is awful. I kind of want to ask about this, but I'm also reluctant to go down this path. Don't see what good it would do, but I'm the type that needs to know all the facts.
Don't see what good it would do, but I'm the type that needs to know all the facts.
