Quote: I guess I've entered the angry phase already??? Sorry, guys...
don't be sorry...happens to us all...take a look at my threads and you'll see that I keep going there and back there and back...it's a long road home...and it will at time drive you crasy.
what I have realized is that when I get angry..I feel like h should pay for what he's done...he should be punnished..but when I start to step out of the angry place I realize that h IS being punnished and hurting...he knows full well what he's done to me and his family..and will have to deal with it for the rest of his life (his words mind you) keep reminding yourself of how they must feel..doesn't make it easy but can help to make it easier.
having said all that...welcome to peicing...it is rather slow here but I see you've got some friends that are happy to come over and visit you. many think that the trenches is the hard part..dbing till the was comes to their senses and comes home...nope...the real work starts now!!! welcome..welcome...welcome.