The OW living with family is an issue for me. He says *SAYS MIND YOU* that he is NOT allowed to live there, his family does not want him, but they'll take her.
The car has been taken... there isn't anyway for either of us to get the Cavalier back... but he told that all his paychecks would be coming directly to me, he said "I'd basically be paying you to stay married to me" <--It was a half hearted joke...
I just don't want to get tangled up in this mess again. I feel horrible for wanting to shut him out if he's really changed if he really does "just want his life back" If he is sincere in missing his children and his wife... I would feel awful. But it's not worth the possible heartache for me.
I'm going to try to explain this to him again tonight.
I cannot continue moving forward and just leave the door open for him to try.. It's all or nothing for me. So I choose nothing
