Why does everything about sex in my M have to be so difficult?
I don't know but I do know that my perspective on the whole issue has changed since I've been separated and back out in the land of the HD male. I'm going to risk being obnoxious and suggest that you really need to figure out what kind of sex life, even if that means being a spy, your H is having since he clearly isn't having much of one with you. I think being a spy is indicative of fusion but I also think it might tell you what you might most want to deny.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
