After the great Easter Weekend I went away for a couple of days then on Wednesday night got text asking me if I wanted to go round for a cup of tea!!
We chatted a lot about her work and that she was not that happy and that since Monday after I left she had felt quite flat again and that she was coming back off the pill as she 'wasn't making use of it'!!!!
On Friday I went round after picking Sam up and when he had gone to bed she poured her heart out;
She is scare she does not have the 'right' feelings for DD It's too quick and he is pushing her to do things He is too clingy sending loads of postcards from Oz all saying how desperate he is and how much he misses her Also he got someone in the UK to send her a card whilst he is away 'professing his love' She mentioned that she might have to change jobs as it was all too much! She told me how much she enjoyed Easter with me and gave me a kiss on the lips as I left and a big hug!!!!
She also told me she had noticed how much I had changed and how much calmer I was.
Loads of other things that night some not so encouraging. She said she fancied DD but that sex was not on the agenda.
She kept saying that we know eachother so well and I said that she had seemd happier the last couple of weeks (bad db'ing!!) and she said that was so true.
On Saturday we had breakfast and she then went out with her frined and kids. This friend asked how things were with DD and she said OK then she asked about me and W and she said we were getting on great!!
Anyway I got invited back on Saturday night for dinner and she told me that DD had turned up a couple of times uninvited and that annoyed her a lot.
So she seems to be a lot happier with DD away but maybe I am just replacement therapy at the moment even though all her old spark and enthusiasm including all our pet sayings have returned
DD has told her he wants to come up straight away on Thursday when he lands but she has told him Saturday is early enough!!!
Anyway enough for now...I am sure you wished you had never asked!!!