sorry to hear this, I agree w/CL, your H might still be in MLC, what w/the constant going out and other friends. He is not ready to grow up I guess, and give it his all, he still wants to play around. Stay strong and keep detaching while the webs clear off his head.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.