Well, I guess my only advice to you, sweetie, would be to do what you feel you need to be doing. And if that's still DB'ing, then that's what you need to do.

Like I've said before, you never know how you are going to act/react until you are actually in a sitch yourself.

Have you gone over the "infidelity" forum? I know there are a lot of people over there who are DB'ing while their H or W are still in an actual A.

Maybe you are truly starting to detach as far as how you are feeling now. I truly think that's the only thing you can do at this point if he is still seeing OW on a continual and regular basis AND still living @ home.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10