Hi Cemar, Thanks for responding. I do understand where you are coming from. I also think you are right and really aren't getting where the woman is coming from. To ask for things to make an emotional connection for a woman are things that should be the MINIMUM kind of interaction with ANY relationship she has. Mutual respect, communication, feeling valued etc. She will probably want this from her girlfriends, siblings, parents...and any other close relationships she has... as well as her husband.
When a man is asking for sex to build the EC, and the rest of that stuff isn't there, for the woman it can feel like having sex with a stranger. Not in a good way. In a way that we are taught is bad. Think about it, most guys don't go out seeking a wife by looking for the woman who will have sex with him immediatly before they know each other and communicate and spend some time together.
Gotta get to work but that's the short version.
Have a good day everyone!
Bear
The voyage of discovery is not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes.
--Marcel Proust
