It's all about EC, for BOTH sexes. The probelm is that most women have real problems with GIVING EC to their spouse. What they need to understand is that EC for them happens BEFORE sex, but for men, the primary EC comes AFTER sex(for HD men). So LD women dismiss sex as important, they have sex maybe 2 times a month, not realizing that by doing so, EC is only happening twice a month. THey gets tons of it, and they never give it back. Or if they give EC, it is in ways that THEY understand, and it is not what I want. In other words, they can not speak our love language.
