runner26.2:

The problem with marriage is that the EC for men and women comes usually in very opposite ways. Men and women are VERY opposites. What he needs is likely NOT what you need and vice versa. This is a very delicate balance to achieve. ALL parts of the marriage need to be operating well, and this DEFINTIELY includes sex(with desire, that is KEY).

You talk about EC. This is very important. I am sure that you have many suggestions for your husband on how he can build EC with you. Let him know. But, how do you plan on building EC with HIM?