I agree with you 100%. I am not anti communication. What I am getting confused about is why the focus is always to be on the womens needs. What we seem to be saying on these boards is that to fix a marriage, the man should focus on the wifes needs, and the WIFE should ALSO focus on the wifes needs. When do the needs of the man ever get addressed?
I guess that I had a really radical concept, man focus on womens needs while women focuses on mans needs. Is this dumb? Seriously, maybe I have this wrong.
