Thank You Amy.
I know you are right.

Do I allow him to visit?
I have absolutely no faith in anything that he has told me.

I tried to just "leave him", I very calmly told him there was no "us" I was finished, etc.
He played my role and I played his....

I will keep telling him that I am unsure but if he wants to prove himself... I will remain receptive.
Is that an OK plan?