Thanks! I think I am finally starting to understand this unconditional love thing. I show my H that I am the better person-- still do kind things , be understanding and considerate of his feelings inspite of all the idiotic things he may be doing, while setting boundaries with him of course.
I will just keep reminding myself that he is a self-absorbed jerk right now and it is all about him, BUT I don't have to be that way. This is not me and I am going to take the high road everytime!
When the fog lifts he will see me for the wonderful person that I truly am. I just have to get to the point where I believe this--- my self-esteem isn't the greatest right now, but I'm working on it!
