I have realized that in my childhood, though I have no complaints It was Great!, (I am one of 7 children) I felt like I was always competing for attention and to this day wanting my mother's approval of me, which has transferred(because of SSM)to my R with my H. seeking his approval and not feeling like I ever get it. >>>> <<<
oh boy, do i hear you there. i too have a need for attention due to my childhood, so that makes his lack of attention so much worse to handle. i wish i had an answer to your problem; that would mean i'd have one for mine. we are separated right now for the past 15 months and he's filed...we're just waiting til the lawyer comes up with a court date. i'm not pushing and God has been holding things up, i guess. i just found out last week he'd sent in all the papers.
