Thanks Heartbroken. I have a lot of research to do on all of this. I have some friends who have been through it, or at least similar sitch's, so I'm getting some good advice. Thanks again!
Monica
My sitch: Me 40 H 30 M 8 yrs 1 S5.5 Bomb Oct 2005 Sep Nov 2005 H w/ Ow I filed for LS June 2007 H responded w/ D 2007 I have sole P custody, joint L Just need to take care of Final Judgement papers