I took time to read through your stich and I can see what you went through.
I see where our sitchs are similar in how our WAW are acting.
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Man, but if in the fullness of time, if this person backflips because they haven't done enough work to become a self happy person and look to you for their happiness
I agree 100%, they need to do work on themselves. Has she changed, maybe , maybe not. I do now that the person she was when she started this journey is different than the person she is now. She is much more confident person, I do beleive she has experienced a lot growth in the pasgt 1.5 years and I applaud her for that.
Yeah maybe this will blow up, but you know what when I can lay my head on my pillow at night saying I did everything I could to put my family back together then and only then will be at peace.
Until then I am standing for what I beleive in the santity of M and the importance of an intact family for my D. Will I accept my wife if she has not changed in ways that will be beneficial to our M, NO! She will have to show me she will commit to doing that, I beleive she will in time.