I posted this in separated so forgive me for posting it here also but I got little response and I really think the MLC forum is where I belong because my husband is certainly a alien!!
Here's my story..... I posted to this site last summer after my husband dropped the bomb - the ole I love you but I'm not in love with you anymore. After that I DB'd my butt off and just gave him lots of space. He seemed to come and go with his emotions. Christmas we seemed to be doing just great. January he seemed to pull away. February he up and left taking very little with him. For the first two months he would only text me and all he would say about us was that he was still having the same issues. I did see him last week as one of our dogs(his dog actually) was very sick and he came to visit her 3 times. I was as kind as I could be and really deserved an academy award for how I acted! I didn't ask any relationship ?'s, I didn't ask where he is living, and he didn't offer. As far as I was concerned we were there for the dog and nothing more.
So, here we are a week later and I just found out he is living in an apartment with another woman. Now it ALL makes sense!!!
Now with all that said, let me tell you that I have lost 53 lbs since the summer. I am doing new and exciting things and I have gotten myself into the best mental spot I can be. God has worked miracles in me and has given me the ability to see that I will be okay no matter what. But as each of you know, each day is a struggle. The loneliness is unreal. Easter with his seat empty was torture. This really feels like a death in the family.
Did I mention that he hasn't changed his deposit going into our account so is still paying all the bills, etc.
Anyone got any insight into what the heck he is thinking? Is it too late? Do I hire a PI and get proof of the affair?
Okay, that's enough rambling. Thanks for any thoughts.
