He says that he loves me, and no matter what I do he is going to try to win me back, he's willing to do "whatever it takes."
Just keep repeating to yourself "actions not words"
What ACTIONS is he doing???? A guy who was SINCERE in that desire would be: - seeing a psych for that eval he was supposed to have - working some menial job in the meantime until something better came along, so he can help support his babies. - getting clean from whatever drugs he's been taking - doing whatever it takes to get back into his old job or a similar new job that pays a decent wage
This guy has BSed you with his words all along, while his actions have not matched up. Don't hold your breath waiting for him to change. Maybe he will - if so, he will prove himself as above by his ACTIONS. Don't put any stock in his words.