It does me so much good to read what you guys post that I seem to comeback to earth and don't think I m going crazy. Today has been tough. If you have a chance please read my post YOYO husband. I could use some advice. Sorry about hijacking here.
2940 Today I fell back just like you have. I called my H and told him what I had heard that his ow was telling people and her family that it was alright to date my H because he had filed divorce papers and that I wouldn't sign because of investment reasons and that I was a horrible B*$#h. I had a quite a long phone conversation with him.
Ok my point is we all fall back. It is so hard to detach all the time. I like you just want a little bit of hope and when I hear a kind word I think I have made progress but sometimes it is just a word nothing else. I know he just says them.. What have you guys said Don't believe anything they say. They are just saying it.
I see how important that it is for you to move your office. It is that detachment from seeing him everyday. When you see him you are always looking for just a tiny bit of hope from a hug , conversation,a look, a compliment. I know I do the same thing and you know deep down I know that it won't be there and if it is he means it different than what I want to believe. You and I also have to realize it and move ahead. It just is extremely hard easier said than done. I wish we could just split for a while and still have the business sucess that we have but in real life that doesn't happen.
I would just tell him that you need the space to clear your mind and get things thought out in your mind and you need the space to get your work done for a while. I bet he needs it too. Just like my H just said he wishes he could just take a job and leave and get away from it all.
It is so much easier to tell you then to follow thru myself. Knowing it is what we all need to do.
Good Luck Monday and keep your head up and stay as positive and confident as you can. Later you can let it out. I will be thinking about you and hoping things will go well. Alitte prayer will help too.
