Its over...she filed part 2

[ImprovedRomeo]

Well I thought I'd give you all a quick update on my sitch. I got her a b.day card from my daughter and a small bakeware set (I guess from both D and I). I realized no matter what her behavior I'll try to be the person I am as long as it's without any expectations. I don't expect her to say thank you, I don't expect her to see me in a better light. I just did it without any expectations.

I was listening to a radio talk show a few days ago in which someone called in, she was in a similar situation and the talk show host basically told her that she was a pathetic loser for hanging on to the guy after he's been nothing but an @ss to her. He said "if you weren't a pathetic loser my dear you'd tell him to F off". I took this to heart and said to myself I'm successful, I'm handsome, I'm not a pathetic loser...hell no. I don't call her, I don't contact her unless it's strictly business, when she makes small talk I give her a one or two word answer or a half smile and ignore it. I'm feeling quite OK lately just being alone but I'm missing friendships. I still don't have friends to go to the mall with or go grab lunch or dinner with.

I've also started working out; I can do 12 standing bicep curls with 25lb dumbells and I'm bench pressing about 65lbs - hey that's 40% my own body weight lol