I do need some help today. My h and my S22 and his girlfriend and another boy came down to help with the business today an the wind was blowing so hard we couldn't do anything. I got all the work I could get out of the even though it was horrible. My H thought I should of had them do more. Any way My S GF told me she had this girl come up and ask if whe was dating my S She said yes and this person said well my aunt is dating his dad and he has served me papers and i won't sign and that I am a horrible B*&%#. That I am holding out for investment reasons. My s GF told her that H hadn't served me papers and that he still comes down snd sees me. and that was all a story. I called him and I said this is what your OW is spreading a round of course he doesn't believe she would do that. I told him I didn't deserve this and I had been trying really hard to hold this business together. I said I'm telling H because I'm sure he would rather me talk to him (we can talk to each other after 25 yrs)about it instead of someone else. I said as a friend I believe your OW is not telling you the whole truth. I probably shouldn't say that but I was on a roll. I said I don't think It should be going around that I am the bitch and won't sign divorce papers when there is none. He said he just wants to leave and go as far away as possible that he is not incontrol of his life or time. This plant has destroy more things than one. He doesn't care about anything or anyone. I know I shouldn't have snapped but I think he should hear what is being said. He told me her Niece is a b*&^# and that she would say anything. I said where did she get her info. He said I am going to talk to the OW about it. I said she isn't going to tell you she said that. I said she has you believing anything she says.
Please guys I need some support and advice. Financially we have to hang in there to benefit both of us but I don't know. This woman is such a manipulator. This isn't her first married man. She has had several so she is very good on how she acts. How can someone like her live with her self.
He told me that we had been getting along well and that he was just not in control of his life and he would live his life and I was to be in control of mine and live mine. What is he thinking. I think I am going crazy.....
Virgina you are not Hijacking . Please post whatever you need to. I value your advice that you have given so many others I would hope you would tell me anything....
Guys help....Why should any one have to go thru this....
