IMHO, your H is probably more "old school" and if so then he definitely would prefer a "quieter" type service where he feels less out of place - I've expereienced that when I was younger when I was still "religious" (I ditched everything afer my sister died in 1990 = long story) BUT I felt quite uncomfortable with people dancing & singing & speaking in tongues around me - maybe it's much the same for him.
I guess he needs to find his "niche" and once he's comfortable with that....well I guess other things can happen then
My thoughts are (IMHO, ok) we are both standing in the GAP for the salvation of our spouses
Even though you're a fully fledged "piecer" patience will still be required here and prolly even more than before as you wait on your Heavenly Father to work on your H - I know you & I are not in the same "place" marriage wise, but if you have time GO HERE as there are quite a few thngs that became clear to me by listening to this message today!
I will pray for your H & the continued piecing of your wonderful marriage!
