So out of the blue after two months of no contact... Kevin calls me today.
I talked to him... I stayed away from bothersome topics, I kept my answers to the point... and I honestly did not once say ILY. (This was for my sanity, I refuse to fall prey to his game once again.)

He says that he loves me, and no matter what I do he is going to try to win me back, he's willing to do "whatever it takes."

I told him I didn't think that was something I wanted, but that I would talk to him for awhile and see how a friendship works between us.


I am so unsure... do I cut the ties now?
Or do I enter slowly cautiously into this outreach ...and see what happens?
I honestly need some opinions here... I come now willing to listen.... willing to do WHATEVER it takes.... I just don't know if DBing is the right thing anymore...