So out of the blue after two months of no contact... Kevin calls me today. I talked to him... I stayed away from bothersome topics, I kept my answers to the point... and I honestly did not once say ILY. (This was for my sanity, I refuse to fall prey to his game once again.)
He says that he loves me, and no matter what I do he is going to try to win me back, he's willing to do "whatever it takes."
I told him I didn't think that was something I wanted, but that I would talk to him for awhile and see how a friendship works between us.
I am so unsure... do I cut the ties now? Or do I enter slowly cautiously into this outreach ...and see what happens? I honestly need some opinions here... I come now willing to listen.... willing to do WHATEVER it takes.... I just don't know if DBing is the right thing anymore...