Quote: --------------------------------------------------- I think the key is to work on the relationship and then the sexual relationship evolves naturally and passionately. ---------------------------------------------------
I think you will find that you have to do both, work on the relationship and have sex, at the same time.
Otherwise, define precisely, the state of the relationship before you are going to find yourself available to your spouse again.
From experience, I can tell you that you will only discover certain aspects of your relationship that needs attention, from having sex with your spouse. The sex is not a "standalone". You don't do everything else first, then the sex. The sex is integral to the process.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
