I do not end the experience feeling satisfied at all. I think the use of "crap sex" is universally an EC buster, whether you are the one being asked to give it or the one being asked to receive it.
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See then why not work on the other issues that led to the loss of the EC. I think the key is to work on the relationship and then the sexual relationship evolves naturally and passionately. That is if the reason for the lack of s is due to issues in the marriage. If the w just has ld...then that is when you need to delve deeper as to why she is ld. Maybe she is unhappy with her figure or maybe it was how she was raised...to think s is dirty. But to be honest, in my situation, i am hd except with my H I am not. Only because we have issues that need to be worked on and resolved. And until we really sit down and talk about the things that are occuring in our daily lives that seem to build conflict and isolation...the ec and s will not be able to develop or come back. Right now we live like roommates...raising our kids. Although I know he thinks we are "better" and doing fine. His laidback personality and my fear of causing tension at home...I guess.
