It is interesting to note that the reverse can be true as well. When my W "just helps me" I do not end the experience feeling satisfied at all. In fact I do feel resentful, used, etc. all the things that you mention that many women are raised to believe if they just give it up to a man. I think the use of "crap sex" is universally an EC buster, whether you are the one being asked to give it or the one being asked to receive it.
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
