Ha AH...I call it an inate sense of fairness and loyal to a fault....I have the most trouble accepting I should be a friend whilst my H lives with an OW........aaarrrrggghhhhhhh.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest