Ha AH...I call it an inate sense of fairness and loyal to a fault....I have the most trouble accepting I should be a friend whilst my H lives with an OW........aaarrrrggghhhhhhh.


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest