Hey Nic...Im Here...im not a big gun....but I know what u r going thru , I struggle with it all the time. Have you followed Cinders thread at all?

If ya are having those feelings...i think dark is the way to go....til you calm down.....my D is gonna happen too and I have to facilitate it..even tho it is never what I wanted. He filed in Jan...took him 10 months to do that and take his ring off! he lives with 25 yr old OW and screams no money and I should help him with our debt...yeah riiiight.

Fill me in on your stitch sweets. here or email me!


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest