CeMar,

Harely very clearly mentions in 5LL that these 5 major needs of men and women do not exist in a vacuum. You can't just pull out one or the other and say "this is the key." Yes, for many men, sex is the most important thing. But for many women, communication may be the most important thing. What is the difference between a woman denying a max sex and a man denying such a woman communication? And consider how one can lead to the other.

And wasn't it you just a few posts ago that went on about non-verbal communication? I could see that playing a HUGE role in sex, recreational companionship, and attractiveness.

Can you see how you are putting off a major anti-communication vibe that is frankly turning-off several women here? Could it be that the same thing is happening in your home? Could it be that this anti-communication vibe you give off at home is what has resulted in your wive not fulfilling your sex needs?

Chrome


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