Shades,

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Reading the rest of the posts on here makes me question if my H really is MLC. I know to me it seems like it BUT he is no where near as bad as some of the obvious MLCers. My H is not stingy with money, he doesn't spew at me, there is no anger to show residual feelings, he is fairly indifferent to me,


I am with you on this one! My W definitely does not have ALL of the major characteistics of the MLC. This is why I am wondering,like yourself, exactly what is going on. She is not spending money like it is going out of style, nor is she stingy with it. Very rare with any major anger my direction. But just when I think that it may not be an MLC, she buys a new car and although was NEVER a vain person, recently spends $180 on a "home mole removal" product from the internet. . . So who knows.

Doesn't sound like you have reverted, it just gets to be so up and down always. At any rate, I sincerely hope that things get better for you.

JTG