To say he will feel loved by me having S is pretty sad.
in marriage, for men, it pretty much is all about sex. Please read "His Needs/Her Needs", it will help you to understand your man a little more.
Meaningless, lay there so i can get off, satisfy my need sex is not what marriage is or should be. I am a HD woman....but if there are problems then s is not the answer. It can only build resentment in the woman to feel empty and a gratification tool so to speak.
cemar, you and I have very different viewpoints. As for interpretations of books...I think we are different as well.