Quote:
the top three male needs were Complete Sexual Fulfillment, Physical Attractiveness, and Recreational Companion


(1) who doesn't consider attractiveness? (which doesn't necessarily mean she's a model or the guy is a body builder - all it means is that particular person is attracted to a certain type - aren't we all?)

(2) recreational companion - I would have to agree and would say this was probably in the top 3 for my H

(3) complete sexual fulfillment as #1 - sorry, I don't buy it. Maybe if they interviewed a bunch of 20 year olds, sure. But I can bet this probably comes close to the bottom of the top 10 for my H

And, believe it or not (and my H actually tells people this) the main thing that he was attracted to about me was what is between my ears. I know it might sound corny but intelligence is his "turn on" not sexual fulfillment


Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)